July 27, 2005

Maybe He's Just Gay (Not That There Is Anything Wrong With That)

Because of this, I looked at this.

I suggested to a friend that he is probably gay and since you aren't allowed to be homosexual AND Mormon, he is probably keeping it to himself. After watching the movie they have posted on that site about the first time he saw the billboard, she said, "Oh, he has a Christian vibe more than a gay one." (I thought that was the point in Utah.)

What kind of friends does this guy have? Why isn't it acceptable to be single? I am catching a similar tone from some of my friends, and acquaintances. It isn't that they think I should be married, because, let's face it, I am married. They think I should want kids. In fact today at work someone said to me, "Congratulations!" this woman thought I had been promoted. Instead, someone with a very similar name to mine was promoted. A coworker overheard her and said, "Oh! Are you pregnant?"

I replied, "Yes, and I drank heavily after finding out."

In this society not wanting kids is practically unacceptable. When you tell people that you don't want kids they ALWAYS say, "Oh yes you do," or, "Don't worry, you will!" I don't hate kids, I think they are fun and great! I just don't want any of my own.

All I have to say is, "Good luck, Lance!" I hope you find the friends of your dreams, the ones who don't put their own expectations upon you.

(and yes, Darryl, I did need you to post the last post, too! Thank you!!! You're a saviour.)

Posted by kerewin at July 27, 2005 12:11 AM
Comments

- perhaps he is a closeted 'mo, perhaps not... personally, i think he is straight (did you see how he was dressed?)
- i too would drink heavily after finding out i was pregnant :p
- *gushes* I am a SAVIOUR!!! YAY!

Posted by: darryl at July 28, 2005 06:59 AM

It's not that it is so very unacceptable, as it is goes back to the old idiom that MISERY LOVES COMPANY.
I want you to have some, just for the scientific observation of what would happen to your blog were you to volunteer for that madness that is motherhood.

Posted by: MsF at August 1, 2005 05:36 AM